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Party Etiquette

Rules of Engagement

Single Gentlemens guidelines

Dark Desires aims to create an environment where single women and couples can come and fully indulge there desires and fantasies. For this to happen single gentlemen are essential, and can greatly contribute to the positive experience of couples and single women at our parties, which encourages their participation in these events, leading to greater numbers attending.

To help facilitate this we have some guidelines for single gentlemen that we hope will eventually become the standard behaviour of the gentlemen at a Dark Desires party.

These are based on some of the principles of ‘The G00dfellaz’ who are leading the way by setting defined standards of behaviour of single gentlemen within their organisation.

This is now attracting attention from Resorts, clubs, and couples around the world!

Be Prepared

Always come to a party prepared to play. We suggest a small bag with Condoms, Lube, wet wipes, Mouthwash or mints, And a hairband(just in case the lady forgot hers).

Grooming and appearance

Always be smartly dressed. Make an effort to dress well. If in doubt overdress for the occasion. In general no caps, tshirts or sportswear.
Smell clean and fresh. Shower directly before attending any party.

Wash between play partners.

Wash or freshen up directly after play. No woman wants to smell your previous play partner on you.

Approach with respect

Approach with Respect. Always approach women at a party with respect. Ass grabbing or slapping as they walk past is not acceptable. If a woman is playing with others, give her space and ask before joining in. This is one of the biggest complaints and turn offs for women and couples.
If you are playing with a PlayPartner and another male starts touching her, Quietly make her aware of what is happening and ask if she is ok with it. If she is not then you communicate to the gentleman that he is not needed.

Take care of your PlayPartner

Take care of your PlayPartner. Frequently check to make sure she is ok by asking. If she has been playing awhile ask if she needs a drink. If someone is kneeling on a hard floor see if you can find a cushion or towel for her and place it under her knees, or if her head has begun to hang off the end of the bed offer to support it.
We want people to feel safe and looked after, and therefore free to fully express their desires.
Work together as a group for her pleasure when there are more than one of you, and be open to changing positions.

Find out her wants and desires

Take the time to find out the wants, desires and fantasy’s of a potential play partner or couple, and convey that information to others that may be involved. Take the time to understand the different dynamics of Cuckold couples, Stag & Vixen, Hotwife couples, Snowbunnies, Queen of Spades etc.... In short, be attentive.

Dark Desires aims to create an atmosphere where consenting adults may have fun. therefore NO ALWAYS MEANS NO, and is not to be questioned. Please always respect others - no groping, touching or joining in with anyone unless you have permission to do so.

Excessive drinking whilst partying could lead to individuals making choices you wouldn’t normally make. If staff believe you are above an acceptable limit during or before you enter the party we can refuse to serve you at the bar, ask you to leave the party or refuse you entry.

If you have any cause for concern or a complaint to make about another attendee and / or the facilities, please report this immediately to a member of staff in order to get the matter/situation rectified.

Dark Desires terms and admission policy

Anyone wishing to attend a Dark Desires Party must be 18+ years of age.

Party bookings need to be made in advance. Booking in advance helps us to keep a good balance between single men, women and couples attending. Fundamentally this is to ensure you have an enjoyable experience.

If you are unable to attend after making a booking please could you cancel your booking as the space can be given to someone else. Failure to do so can result in future attempts to book in being denied.

We retain the right to grant or deny entry as we run an exclusive invite only party for our members.

Cameras, video recording devices of any description are not allowed in the party. Phones must be switched off & not used anywhere in the party. If you are seen breaking these rules you will be asked to leave the party.

Whilst attending a Dark Desires Party you agree to abide by the rules stated above. Failure to do so my result in you being asked to leave the party and / or have your membership permanently revoked. We reserve the right to change or amend these rules without notice.

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